When You Don’t Want to Go Back to the Way You Were

I just got my braces off…again.

I have had braces on my upper teeth three times. Count them. One. Two. Three.

As the orthodontist explained, “Teeth have a memory. They always want to go back to the way they were.”

As soon as he said those words, I felt convicted. I have a tendency to go back to the way I was.

We all do.

Karen (not her real name), admitted to single handedly destroying her marriage with passive aggressive coldness, destructive words, and disrespect of the worst kind. After her husband walked away from the marriage, she had a Holy Spirit moment and completely changed. She felt conviction over what she had done, her heart softened, and she vowed never be that woman again. Karen had a beautiful holy glow of a woman who knew she was totally forgiven and completely loved by God. Miraculously, her ex-husband saw the change, and the marriage was restored!

However, after a few years, the destructive behavior began to creep back in.

A word here.

A cold shoulder there.

A retreating into self for weeks at a time.

Ten years after the miraculous restoration, the marriage crashed and burned.

“Teeth have a memory. They always want to go back to the way they were.”

Jesus saw this tendency to fall into old ways when he cleaned out the temple. In the beginning of his ministry, after his first of miracle of turning the water into wine at the wedding of Cana, he traveled to Jerusalem to celebrate the Passover.

“In the temple courts he found men selling cattle, sheep and doves and others sitting at tables exchanging money. So he made a whip out of cords and drove all from the temple area, both sheep and cattle, he scattered the coins of the moneychangers and over turned their tables. To those who sold doves he said, ‘Get these out of here! How dare you turn my Father’s house into a market!’” (John 2:14-16 NIV)

Three years later, during his last week of life on earth, Jesus came upon the unholy mess again.

“Jesus entered the temple area and drove out all who were buying and selling there. He overturned the tables of the moneychangers and the benches of those selling doves. ‘It is written,’ he said to them, ‘My house will be called a house of prayer, but you are making it a den of robbers.’” (Matthew 21:12-13 NIV)

How did the corruption happen the second time?

I don’t think it happened all at once. After Jesus cleared out the temple initially, I suspect it stayed that way for a time. But one day, a moneychanger set up his table. Then another brought in a few birds, followed by a couple of sheep, and then here came a cow.

The next thing you know, the temple wasn’t any different than it was before Jesus cleared it out and cleaned it up three years earlier. In three years it had reverted back to an unholy mess.

And God whispers in my ear: “Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God?” (1 Corinthians 6:19 NIV)

Sometimes I am that messy temple.

Swept-clean sinful behavior, ungodly thoughts, and jump-off-the-cliff emotions are itching to creep back in at all times. It is up to me (and to you) to keep the temple clean.

Perhaps you’ve had a Holy Spirit moment as some point in your life—a moment that caused you to make a major lifestyle change.

But for the moment to maintain momentum, we need to be constantly aware of our tendency to revert…to go back to the way we were.

I am so thankful that Jesus went back to clean out the temple a second time. It lets me know that he will graciously return to my messy self again and again with broom in hand.

Today, think back to a time when you made a decision to change something in your life: a bad habit, an ungodly behavior, a destructive relationship, hurtful words, overeating, the abuse of alcohol, disrespect to your husband, yelling at your children, bitterness toward someone who hurt you, etc.

Have you allowed any old ways or attitudes to creep back in?

If so, simply ask Jesus to come and clean out the temple…again.

Then cooperate with Holy Spirit to keep your resolve.

I don’t know about you, but I never want to go back to the way I was.

If you’re willing to take a few moments and ask God if there is something you’ve allowed to creep back in, prayer the words in the graphic above. Then leave a comment and say, “I’m doing it today!”

(Did you know that your comments are like super big hugs? It lets me know that we’re in this together and someone’s reading!)

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138 Responses to When You Don’t Want to Go Back to the Way You Were

  1. Precious Ndlovu December 1, 2016 at 4:01 am #

    God create in me a clean heart, I am doing it today.

    • Donna December 1, 2016 at 10:00 am #

      Create in me a clean heart , starting fresh!

    • Maria Francisca December 1, 2016 at 5:45 pm #

      I’m doing this today. Create in me a clean heart Lord.

    • LeighAnne December 3, 2016 at 8:00 am #

      I don’t want to go back to where I was.. I feel myself creeping there!
      I keep going around the mountain again and again!
      This devotion was perfect for me!
      I need to trust God and let go of my life and believe God has a beautiful plan for my life!

      Starting Fresh .. I can do all things through Christ Jesus!

    • Shirley December 12, 2016 at 3:32 am #

      Have mercy on me o Lord. I’m m doing it today

    • Phumudzo December 14, 2016 at 1:10 am #

      Today I was praying to God asking Him to Forgive me once again for going back to the way I was to the sinful nature and in a silent voice I heard Him say go and search for Sharon Bible app , I had no Idea what He had in store for me Until I found a link to this page and I started reading this and it speaks exactly to what I have been going through and praying for this morning. I do not want to go back. I want to grow in faith and be a living testimony and share the word and live the life that God has purposed me for.and I realise I will never live that life if I keep going back. Today I trust God that He will create in me a Clean heart and renew my spirit and mind. As I also keep reading and staying connected to you Sharon as I believe it was not a coincidence to find this post but God directing me to new life. I am looking forward to growing in faith through your posts. God bless you.

  2. Tracey December 1, 2016 at 4:19 am #

    I’m doing it today. Thank you for your wonderful inspirational teachings.

  3. Nilda December 1, 2016 at 4:34 am #

    I’m doing this today!

  4. Ngozi Nnazor December 1, 2016 at 4:39 am #

    Create in me a clean heart O Lord and renew the right spirit within me

  5. sandra December 1, 2016 at 4:46 am #

    Dear Sharon,
    Thank you for the message this morning.
    I needed to hear that!

  6. Adora December 1, 2016 at 4:47 am #

    I’m doing it today!!!right now!

  7. Lisa December 1, 2016 at 4:48 am #

    I’m doing it today!!

  8. Marie December 1, 2016 at 5:17 am #

    Thank you Sharon for this post, I have been letting old habits slip back in ie alcohol I feel like such a fake! But I so want The Lord to clean me up! I thank God for his unending love & mercy!

    • Nancy December 13, 2016 at 9:04 am #

      I prayed for you just now that you will find all you need in Him

  9. Christina December 1, 2016 at 5:36 am #

    Praise to God for making all things new again – even us! Your words were just what I needed to hear this morning. Thank you.

  10. Jeannie Sweezy December 1, 2016 at 5:45 am #

    Thank you for sharing. I get frustrated when the “old” creeps back in. Sometimes it happens before we even realize it. Thank you for pointing out that this is a normal part of our journey. Instead of getting frustrated, I am asking God to remove those old things that sometimes creep back in. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. God spoke to me through your words. God bless you.

    • Sharon Jaynes December 1, 2016 at 8:28 am #

      Yep. Yucky normal.

  11. Tabatha December 1, 2016 at 5:46 am #

    Thanks for the reminder to stay steadfast.

  12. Shanay December 1, 2016 at 5:54 am #

    I’m doing it today. Thank you

  13. Mary Lynn December 1, 2016 at 5:55 am #

    I’m doing it

  14. Cathy December 1, 2016 at 6:01 am #

    I’m doing it today. I changed my eating habits to much healthier ones this summer, and I’m eating poorly again and putting the weight back on. I ask for prayers to be obedient to our Lord again and take care of this only body he gave me.

    • Christine December 1, 2016 at 8:43 am #

      Amen!!! I will be praying and agreeing with you. I need help with the same issue.

  15. Ileana December 1, 2016 at 6:02 am #

    Im doing it today

  16. Lauran December 1, 2016 at 6:04 am #

    I’m doing it today!!!

  17. Corena Hall December 1, 2016 at 6:13 am #

    As a familiar song says ” For His grace is sufficient for every need and His love is so abundant and free…” I do this everyday many times a day, the changing of the heart. The potter molds me, smooths away the ridges and crevices of a life filled with hurt and fears and trials into new mercy as His Word says every morning. He creates the space and the waiting, ah the sweet waiting for it’s there I meet my Savior who is changing this life beyond the Old rugged Cross where He nailed my lesser self to Himself. What a mighty God we serve! Praise Him!

    • Sharon Jaynes December 1, 2016 at 8:27 am #

      I love that.

  18. Rachelle Craig December 1, 2016 at 6:18 am #

    I’m doing it today! ❤ ?

  19. Kilali December 1, 2016 at 6:24 am #

    I’m doing it today!

  20. Cheryl Young December 1, 2016 at 6:35 am #

    I Am Doing This Today: Asking God to clean out my temple.
    Most gracious Heavenly Father,
    Today I come asking You to sweep my temple clean. I’m tired of giving and taking back my same old habits of becoming angry when things don’t go as planned in my life. I release these things into Your Trusting Hands and ask that Your Sweet Holy Spirit keep me on the right side.
    Forgive me of my sins and Thank You for who You Are to me; Lord of my life and of this world.
    In The Precious Name of Jesus I pray,

    • Sharon Jaynes December 1, 2016 at 8:27 am #


  21. Anitra December 1, 2016 at 6:42 am #

    I’m doing it today!

  22. Sheila Taylor December 1, 2016 at 6:44 am #

    This one really hit home. There are lots of things that I “go back to” after resolving to make changes – eating, time & commitment to family, and using time better.

    Today my focus will be on cleaning the temple and focusing on not going back to the way things were. I am making good choices but need God to guide me and keep me on track.

    Thanks for your thoughts.

  23. Roxanne December 1, 2016 at 6:46 am #

    Beautifully written, Sharon! Your insights help to keep me in the right frame of mind. In August, our city was flooded and 90% of our people were affected. It is a daily decision to keep walking in the faith as we all rebuild our homes and our lives. Father God has remained faithful through it all. People are important….not things. I have seen the Holy Spirit in action in our community as we help one another. I pray that this same spirit of harmony stays with us….that we don’t forget….that we continue to be that light on the hill for all.

    • Sharon Jaynes December 1, 2016 at 8:26 am #

      What a powerful story. You are loving one another and I think of 1John.

  24. Cheri Medders December 1, 2016 at 6:50 am #

    Thank you Sharon for the insight. I also had braces when I was younger and some of my teeth have gone back but I thought it was because of an accident many years ago where I had broken my jaw and it had been wired together. I thought perhaps the wiring had moved them around. But the teeth did go back to exactly the way they looked before braces. This visual also helped me see in my spiritual life where old habits die hard. I do see I can only overcome with the One that overcame! Thank you for sharing your insights given by Him. May God continue to bless your writing.

    : )

  25. Sherry Hoppe December 1, 2016 at 6:53 am #

    Wowza, Sharon your story today really resonated with me . I’m doing it today!
    Thank you for all you do and write to bring God’s word to life for all who stop to read it.
    May you and your family be especially blessed throughout this holiday season.

  26. Terri Holland December 1, 2016 at 7:09 am #

    I’m doing it today!

  27. Jeannie December 1, 2016 at 7:09 am #

    This is a very timely word for me today! God is always on time! Thank you for this word of confirmation & encouragement.
    I’m doing it today! (By the grace of God)

  28. Charlotte Lymangrover December 1, 2016 at 7:21 am #

    I wake up every ( well most ) mornings eager to read my Girlfriend in God’s devotion. Thank you!! It has helped me through some pretty trying times. God is good!! I try and share to others how meaningful and helpful your stories and lessons are!! Just wanted to let you know. And so wish I could meet you all some day! And your cruise comming up in Feb. sounds like a dream come true?. Hope everyone is blessed and has a wonderful time.

  29. Sandra December 1, 2016 at 7:21 am #

    I am doing it today

  30. Karen Tatum December 1, 2016 at 7:31 am #

    I’m doing it today.

  31. Trudy Samsill December 1, 2016 at 7:50 am #

    I’m doing it today!!
    Thank you for this post, Sharon. Words we all need to hear.

  32. Nikki December 1, 2016 at 7:51 am #

    I am doing it today, Sharon! Thank you for a wonderful reminder. ❤️

  33. Tina hogue December 1, 2016 at 8:23 am #

    I’m doing it today. Thank-you so much for this blog.

  34. Tina hogue December 1, 2016 at 8:25 am #

    Thank you for this blog I’m doing it today.

  35. Limary December 1, 2016 at 8:26 am #

    I thought I was alone in dealing with this. I even stopped going to church because I thought that I wasn’t good enough. The shame of stumbling on the same areas drove me away until I couldn’t being myself back in. Thank you for this. I know I need a lot more encouragement in this area.

    • Sharon Jaynes December 1, 2016 at 8:29 am #

      Oh sweet friend. Don’t let the devil tell you that you are the only one! We all struggle with this one.

  36. Sharna December 1, 2016 at 8:27 am #

    I’m doing it today!!

  37. Donna December 1, 2016 at 8:27 am #

    I’m doing it today and sharing this with others!
    Thank you Sharon!

  38. Tammy Dyer December 1, 2016 at 8:29 am #

    Sharon….this article so addressed what I’ve been feeling…going backwards in my walk. I don’t want to go back, only forward. Thank you for assuring me I’m not alone and reminding me to pray and not try to do this w/o His help! I do know He will bring me out of this funk and use me for His glory…thanks for the reminder! Blessings

  39. Beth T December 1, 2016 at 8:33 am #

    Thank you for the reminder. Thank you for being a useable vessel by God.

    I am doing it today!!!!!

  40. Christine December 1, 2016 at 8:34 am #

    I am doing it today!!! Thank you for this article.

  41. Minnie December 1, 2016 at 8:38 am #

    I am doing it today.

  42. Mary-Ann December 1, 2016 at 8:44 am #

    I’m doing it today!

  43. Deborah Gajee December 1, 2016 at 8:53 am #

    I am doing it today.

    • Paula Trujillo December 1, 2016 at 9:18 am #

      I am doing it today!

  44. Holly December 1, 2016 at 8:59 am #

    Thank you for the article. I needed to read this today.

  45. Jen Ridenour December 1, 2016 at 9:00 am #

    Thank you Sharon! I’m doing it today!

  46. Holly December 1, 2016 at 9:00 am #

    Thank you for the article. I needed to read it

  47. Angela December 1, 2016 at 9:00 am #

    This hit home today! Starting work on this TODAY!

  48. Barb December 1, 2016 at 9:02 am #

    Thank you for lifting me up today

  49. Mary Anne December 1, 2016 at 9:03 am #

    I am doing it today!! My heartfelt prayer is that I don’t revert to the same sinful behaviour – that I will be ever cognizant of never going back. I am so thankful the Lord keeps giving me another chance.

  50. Caroline Vandriel December 1, 2016 at 9:05 am #

    Overeating, emotional eating, junk food. Huge struggle. Need to remember to ask the Holy Spirit to help keep his temple clean.
    I am doing it today!

  51. Esther McCarthy December 1, 2016 at 9:15 am #

    Our God is so timely. Your message today spoke volumes to me. Saved by grace in 1978 after being married, divorced, and remarried to the same man. We will celebrate 48 years in 2017. It is only because I keep my eyes and heart focused on the Lord and not on the things of this world. I falter many times but I look at myself in the mirror and denounce Satan and always call out to our Mighty Father. He is always there as well as my wonderful Christian sisters in Christ that I can have prayer with at the moment I pick up the phone and make a call. Praise God for His provisions and unmerited favor on all who call upon His name. Blessings on your day and this beautiful Christmas holiday season.

  52. Melanie December 1, 2016 at 9:25 am #

    Thank you for this timely reminder!

  53. Bev December 1, 2016 at 9:27 am #

    I am doing it today.

    I went through a very similar experience in my marriage and life as “Karen”. Our marriage was not restored. But God has healed and restored me. I did have that Holy Spirit moment. And I don’t ever want to go back to the woman I created. I am becoming the woman who God created before I was even knit together in my mother’s womb. When I see the old person begin to raise its head, I am aware, I rebuke and I ask God for forgiveness. I never want to go back to that place of bitterness, resentment, anger and ugliness. I want to radiate Jesus wherever I am. Last night at choir practice that ugly old self started to rise up! I saw it and prayed against it and God graciously touched my spirit. Thank you for the timeliness of your words today. I so needed to be reminded of what I have been healed from and where He has me now.

    • Sharon Jaynes December 1, 2016 at 10:24 am #

      I’m so proud of you!

  54. Margaret December 1, 2016 at 9:42 am #

    I’m doing it today

  55. Brenda Z. December 1, 2016 at 9:50 am #

    I made the decision to clean out my temple……again over the weekend. With God’s help I will recognize early when I am slipping back into my old sinful ways. Praise God, He is merciful and forgiving. He’s the God of second chances!

  56. Cindy December 1, 2016 at 9:53 am #

    I am doing it today!

  57. Beth December 1, 2016 at 9:54 am #

    I’m doing it today.

  58. Susan kimball December 1, 2016 at 9:58 am #

    Working hard to leave an abusive relationship
    Thank you for today’s message!

    • Sharon Jaynes December 1, 2016 at 10:23 am #

      You can do it.

  59. Deborah December 1, 2016 at 10:03 am #

    I’m doing it today!

  60. Uvita December 1, 2016 at 10:06 am #

    I’m doing it today and passing it on!

  61. Stacy December 1, 2016 at 10:15 am #

    I just did it!!God always brings me the right message just when I need to read it.
    Thank you!!!

  62. Karen Oh December 1, 2016 at 10:18 am #

    My heart needed to hear that today. I’m printing what you wrote so I can refresh my memory from time to time. Thank you for sharing God’s Word with us and making it practical with the examples!

  63. Kristi December 1, 2016 at 11:20 am #

    It’s like you’ve been privy to my most private moments with Jesus…exactly what I needed today. Thank you for being willing and obedient.

    • Kristi December 1, 2016 at 11:21 am #

      and I’m doing it today 🙂

  64. Janine December 1, 2016 at 12:06 pm #

    I’m doing it today!!
    Thank you Sharon for the reminder that God gives us second chances- and sometimes we need to be reminded to go in and “clean up” old habits that have crept back in to our lives. Destruction is not always a Big Bang or castostrophic event- most times it’s a gradual erosion caused by bad habits or words- and like any other habits- sometimes we need to go back in and reconcile or take things back to the beginning.

  65. Susan Graves December 1, 2016 at 12:34 pm #

    I am doing it today

  66. striving December 1, 2016 at 12:39 pm #

    I needed to hear this today,as I am researching for assurance that I am forgiven not just once or twice, but always …even if it is the same obstacle I keep tripping over time and time again and yet still fail. I always feel ashamed and stupid for tripping over the same thing time after time

    • Sharon Jaynes December 1, 2016 at 5:03 pm #

      There is no sin that is greater than God’s grace. I’m amazed that He continues to forgive me. I guess that why it’s called AMAZING grace!

  67. Barbara December 1, 2016 at 2:10 pm #

    I’m doing it today!

  68. Robbie Beard December 1, 2016 at 2:25 pm #

    God was speaking directly to me with this. I told Him this temple was dirty and asked Him to clean it.

  69. Angie December 1, 2016 at 3:21 pm #

    I just “met” you through proverbs31ministries last week. I really needed your words about shame. I am so amazed everytime God puts exactly the right message in front of me. I ordered 2 of your books right away and now again today God spoke to me through you. I appreciate your faith and your words. God needed to help me see truth in the midst of my struggles and He used you as His tool. Thank you for being His willing vessel. I look forward to reading your books.

    • Sharon Jaynes December 1, 2016 at 5:02 pm #

      It is so great to “meet” you. God is so good to give us what we need when we need it!

  70. Teresa December 1, 2016 at 4:24 pm #

    I did it today!

  71. Mina December 1, 2016 at 5:23 pm #

    I am doing it today.

  72. PHYLLIS OLLEY December 1, 2016 at 5:36 pm #

    thank you. I needed this today. My heart feels a heavy burden and I am not sure why. I am asking God now to help me. Will you [ray for me too?

  73. Marissa J December 1, 2016 at 6:55 pm #

    I’m doing it today! Thank you so much Sharon. God bless!

  74. S Swanson December 1, 2016 at 8:39 pm #

    I really needed this today. I’m doing it!

  75. yolanda December 1, 2016 at 8:43 pm #

    Father, come back again and cleanse me with a new spirit, in Jesus name amen

  76. Gaby GO December 1, 2016 at 9:46 pm #

    Glad to know I’m not the only one!!!!! I’m doing it today!!!! Hugs and kisses to you all 😉

  77. Monica December 1, 2016 at 9:56 pm #

    I’m dying it Today!!! Thank you Lord!!!

  78. Mary T December 1, 2016 at 11:21 pm #

    I am doing it today. Thank you Sharon!

  79. StephaniezZuni December 2, 2016 at 1:05 am #

    Thank you Sharon! I appreciate that you write about what’s so real in us as women and people –
    It helps me understand my own struggles ~

  80. Itzel December 2, 2016 at 3:54 am #

    Sharon ,
    Thank you for being a blessing to my life. I pray that God will give me a new memory to do what brings glory to his name always .

    I’m doing it today! ❤

  81. Tina Brown December 2, 2016 at 5:20 am #

    I’m doing it today!

  82. Emma December 2, 2016 at 6:51 am #

    This truly blessed me…..thank you for allowing God to give you a much needed word and for passing it on.

    • Kristina December 12, 2016 at 2:18 pm #

      I am doing it today

  83. Lena Mae deWolfe December 2, 2016 at 6:57 am #

    I’m doing it today. Create in me a clean heart O God.

  84. Kim Jenkins December 2, 2016 at 7:20 am #

    I’m doing it today!! Thank you for this reminder!

  85. Yolanda Deese December 2, 2016 at 7:35 am #

    Sorry reading this post late but I’m doing it today, sometimes we have to be reminded. Thanks and God bless each of you.

  86. Terri December 2, 2016 at 8:30 am #

    I’m doing it today!!!

  87. Terri December 2, 2016 at 8:32 am #

    I’m doing it today!!! Thank you SHARON ?

  88. Colette Rizk December 2, 2016 at 9:13 am #

    I’m doing it today!?

  89. Christie December 2, 2016 at 9:42 am #

    I am doing it today! Asking God to create a new refreshed clean heart with a fresh spirit!

  90. Carol MUndy December 2, 2016 at 10:22 am #

    Oh, I so look forward each day to see what the girlfriends are going to say! Always something I can use, it applies directly to me or my situation, and often I will just sit at my desk at work and quietly cry! Crying is really not encouraged at the workplace, so I try to reign it in…Thank you for all you do each and every day to help all of us with our issues! At times I wonder if you have been to my house, you seem to hit things right where they need to be hit! Be blessed, not stressed during this most wonderful time of the year. Since my name is Carol! this is one of my favorite times of the year! Love you all.

  91. Marie December 2, 2016 at 12:36 pm #

    Yes yes and amen…. never realized this truth… resist the devil and he will flee from you and draw near to God and He will draw near to you…this has to happen 24/7. I needed to hear to that to be sober of mind and to be careful. Because I do see sins creeping up again that I felt I conquered before. GIG thanks ?? definitely had to meditate and sit with God on this one.

  92. Cheryl Hosford Alexander December 2, 2016 at 2:21 pm #

    Quality Message! Thank You!

  93. teresa mckay-horsey December 3, 2016 at 3:19 pm #

    i am doing that today !

  94. Sandra Hogge December 5, 2016 at 9:33 am #

    I have to tell you that you are truly a blessing to me. It seems to me that when I am going through some difficult times lately God has given you a word that helps and ministers to me
    so much. I read his Word and pray every day and He gives me the grace and strength I need
    but your site comes up and gives me that extra encouragement that I need! Thank you for your
    love for others and love for God that He can use you to help others with His word and just being
    yourself and honest about your life situations and how He has helped you!!

    Blessings & Prayers,

    Sandra Hogge

  95. Nancy Johnson December 6, 2016 at 12:50 am #

    My love language is ‘words of affirmation,’ but I get very little of that as a mother and teacher. In fact, I feel very unappreciated at work, because I am neither a coach nor a ‘fun’ entertaining teacher in a school where athletics is very important and I’m too lacking in confidence to really think or act like I have something to offer. I get really down on myself. A few years ago, I did Breaking Free by Beth Moore and realized I needed to stop looking to others for affirmation and find it in Jesus, but I am falling into that trap again. I do wish I had a good friend to walk through this with me, but I need to commit to taking to heart this lesson again, so I can be contagious in a positive way. Blessings, Nancy

  96. Idongesit December 6, 2016 at 6:28 am #

    I’m doing it today

  97. Deirdre December 7, 2016 at 8:55 am #

    I always love your posts Sharon. They are so timely for me. Thank you for your transparency and truthfulness! I am “doing it” today. Keeping my heart clean and NOT going back to old ways. Blessings.

  98. michelle December 8, 2016 at 7:32 am #

    im doing it today

  99. Leila Gravano December 9, 2016 at 5:41 am #

    I am doing this today! After a very painful divorce (which still has many consequences today ) I allowed myself to love someone again. But I am so afraid of being hurt again that I am not into this relationship.

  100. Kathleen Sly December 9, 2016 at 10:58 am #

    Thank you, Sharon! This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear today!!! I sat down to pray & spend time in the word before I corrected my husband…again, and the Holy Spirit put a holy muzzle over my mouth!
    Bless you for this post! I will be returning to it time & again!

  101. Cynthia December 12, 2016 at 6:24 am #

    Thank you for reminding me to not slip backwards!

  102. Anna December 12, 2016 at 8:25 am #

    Thank you, I have a blessed marriage. Now I have a heads up on what to watch for. I will pray for the Holy Spirit to help me keep His temple clean.

  103. Tricia Laurence Roberts December 12, 2016 at 8:58 am #

    I’m looking for the free downloadable praying for your husband head to toe from the proverbs 31 devotion.

  104. Angela December 12, 2016 at 9:27 am #

    By God’s grace I’m doing it today!

  105. Marilyn Bucci December 12, 2016 at 10:31 am #

    Yes Lord today cleanse My temple of all things not of You.

  106. Nancy December 12, 2016 at 12:03 pm #

    I’m doing it today! Please Jesus, clean out my temple of all things not of YOU!!!

  107. Marcia December 13, 2016 at 6:24 am #

    God, make a fresh start in me, shape a Genesis week from the chaos of my life.
    Don’t throw me out with the trash, or fail to breathe holiness in me.
    Bring me back from gray exile, put a fresh wind in my sails! (Psalm 51: 10-12 MES)

    Please, Lord, do it today in me!

    Sharon Jaynes, I just love your posts!
    (Thanks and blessings from Brazil:)

  108. Linda December 16, 2016 at 11:47 am #

    This message spoke so loudly to me. I am going to copy it so I can reread it every few days to help me remember to not go backwards. My husband and I are separated at the moment but I am praying and believing God is going to heal and restore my marriage. God gave me hope through you words. Thank you!!

  109. Trina Felty December 31, 2016 at 8:10 am #

    So many times I’ve’gone back to the way it was’ and so many times I’ve caught myself and asked God to forgive me and give me a fresh start. I’m so very thankful for a merciful God who not only understands but lovingly gives me second chances.
    Heavenly Father I’m thankful that you never give up on me and that you love me enough to keep giving me second chances. Keep my eyes and heart focused on you and your unconditional love for me.

  110. Susan January 4, 2017 at 1:29 pm #

    Create in me a clean heart, O God! I’m doing this today!

  111. Jean Moore January 12, 2017 at 9:13 am #

    Thank You!!:):):):) I am doing this today :):):)

  112. Kathy January 13, 2017 at 9:16 am #

    What a great reminder! Thanks for your obedience. I’m doing this today!

  113. Margaret January 13, 2017 at 9:23 am #

    Create in me a clean heart, O God. I’m doing it today,
    Thank you for the reminder to ask God to search my heart daily.

  114. Tiphany January 17, 2017 at 9:48 am #

    I am doing this today! Create in me a clean heart O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Amen.

  115. Lauren February 2, 2017 at 11:18 am #

    I’m doing this today!

  116. Sonya Hull March 9, 2017 at 8:56 am #

    I’m doing it today!

  117. Kim in Cincy May 16, 2017 at 2:42 pm #

    I am behind on some of my devotional emails. God knew I needed to read this one today. I’ve been mulling over in my mind some of the things that I’ve been going backwards on… Like my healthy eating, exercise and personal devotional time. And WHAM! I read this one today.. God is always and ON TIME God! He gives us what we need WHEN we need it. So, this has blessed me to get back to it and to reign myself back in! Thanks for allowing God to use you to bless others.

  118. Courtney Reeves June 9, 2017 at 6:22 am #

    “I’m doing it today! Lord, Jesus just sweep away!

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