G-R-A-C-E when you need it

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There it was.
Carved in wood.
The evidence could not be denied.

My niece, Anna, dropped her kids off at school and then went home to clean up a bit. She removed a hairbrush, school papers, and yesterday’s jewelry from her dresser. And there it was. She couldn’t believe her eyes.

A nail.
And a name.
L-i-l-l-i-a-n…carved into the top of her dresser’s walnut surface.

Seven-year-old L-i-l-l-i-a-n didn’t even bother to hide the weapon used to commit the crime. The nail lay just where she found it.

It was a tough six hours as Anna waited for her 44-inch, 49-pound lump of love to get off the school bus. This was not a good day.

“Come with me,” Anna said to little Lillian. “I want to show you something.”

“What’s this about?” Anna asked pointing to L-i-l-l-i-a-n carved into the wood.

Lillian’s rosy lower lip quivered, her green eyes filled with tears, and her porcelain face turned autumn red.

“I’m sorry,” she whimpered with bowed head.

“What were you thinking?” Anna asked sternly.

“Well,” she began, “last night I was waiting for the boys to finished their shower so I could take my turn. I saw the nail and picked it up. At first, when I thought about carving my name on the dresser, my mind said ‘no, no, no, don’t do it’. But the longer I waited, and the longer1376588_10152001143273115_1462648783_n I thought about it, the ‘no, no, no, don’t do it’ turned into ‘yes, yes, yes, do it.’ And I did. I knew it was wrong, but I just had to do it.”

Anna got down on her knees and held Lillian’s cherub but very guilty face in her hands. “That’s how the devil works,” Anna said. “He creeps in when we don’t expect it and tells us to do bad things—wrong things; but it up to us to say ‘no’.”

“I’m sorry, mommy,” Lillian cried. “I’ll never listen to the devil again.”

Anna told me her story, and you know what, I saw myself in Lillian. I wonder if you did too.

Temptation lies right in front of us—like a nail just taunting us to scratch an itch. At first we say “no, no, no,” but the longer we wait around and fiddle with it, the more likely the “no, no, no” will turn into a “yes, yes, yes.”

What’s the answer? Don’t wait around and fiddle with it! Walk away. Right away.

Paul wrote: The temptations in your life are no different from what others experience. And God is faithful. He will not allow the temptation to be more than you can stand. When you are tempted, he will show you a way out so that you can endure.
(1 Corinthians 10:13 NLT)

That’s true whether the temptation is flirting with that married man at the office, having one glass of wine too many, searching for an old boyfriend on Facebook, sharing a juicy morsel of gossip with a friend, or carving your name in your mom’s dresser with a nail.

I love that Lillian said, “I’ll never listen to the devil again.” Oh don’t you wish that were true. For Lillian. For me. For you. But we will.

That’s when I thank Jesus for the nails…not one, but three…nails that pierced His hands and feet so that we can be forgiven. Even when we fail, Jesus forgives us when we asks and restores us when we fall.

It’s called G-r-a-c-e.

In honorBeingAGreatMom new coverediteded of all moms everywhere who have discovered carved names on tabletops, crayon masterpieces on walls, and paint spills on carpet, Being a Great Mom, Raising Great Kids will be $10 from October 1-6, 2015.


8 Responses to G-R-A-C-E when you need it

  1. Beckie P. Potterfield September 30, 2015 at 7:07 am #

    “don’t fiddle with it”.

    I am leading a Young Girls’ Bible study “Think About Such Thing” Philippians 4:8. (clmflorence.com) May I use your statement up above. Oh my we are really talking about capturing our thoughts (2 Cor 10:5) each week as we study a different “such thing” (true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent, praiseworthy). Getting them to just remember “don’t fiddle with it” would be awesome.

    Thank you for this post.

    • Sharon Jaynes September 30, 2015 at 10:25 am #

      Absolutely you can!

  2. Kaaren September 30, 2015 at 8:12 am #

    How precious and innocent is sweet Lillian’s heart!!! This awakens me as to how God wants us to approach Him. Thank you for sharing this story, us the devil is stealthy and we are not to “wait around and fiddle, but to walk away”.

  3. Sharron Jurski September 30, 2015 at 9:17 am #

    I do love the way U handled this! Instead of getting angry, U used this to teach a lesson!

  4. JoDitt September 30, 2015 at 11:49 am #

    What a great illustration! Thanks for sharing.
    Of course, we have all experienced those voices saying “No, no, no!” or “Yes, yes, yes.” And we have all listened to the wrong voice at times. I am finding that it is hard to listen to the voice of the devil when I am thanking and praising God. Therefore, I try to think of things to thank and praise Him for all day long.

  5. Shirley Beesmer October 1, 2015 at 1:08 pm #

    I most certainly identified with this and am endeavoring to stop my temptations at the “no, no, no, don’t do that” stage. We are studying the Gospel project and this is fresh on my mind. Using the illustration of a child is so easy to understand and remember. Thank You! 🙂

  6. Kyomugasho Alice October 13, 2015 at 7:42 am #

    Thanks for this message. I have learnt alot from it and from now i will be a perfect woman in many ways.

  7. CORNELIANNA December 2, 2015 at 4:38 am #

    Thanks for this powerful message, when we sit at Jesus feet we learn many of His teaching each and every day of our lives. Those who have ears Lord let them use them only to hear your voice. AMEN!

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