The Three-headed Monster Rears His Ugly Head

Sharon JaynesConfidence in Christ, Identity in Christ, Prayer/Spiritual Warfare, Renewing your mind with the Truth 4 Comments

Today’s Truth
2 Corinthians 3:4 (NIV) “Such confidence as this is ours through Christ before God.  Not that we are competent in ourselves to claim anything for ourselves, but our competence comes from God.”

Friend To Friend
The three-headed monster of inferiority, insecurity and inadequacy can paralyze a Christian into inactivity and leave him or her sitting on the bench during the game of life … afraid to get into the game.  God’s desire is to destroy the monster with the truth and render him impotent in our lives.  Satan’s desire is to feed him with lies until he’s big and strong.  Who are we going to believe?

Believing who we are in Christ destroys feelings of inferiority.  Believing where we are in Christ destroys feelings of insecurity.  Believing what we have in Christ destroys feelings of inadequacy.  What a transformation when a Christian believes the truth.  She experiences a confidence makeover!

I do not want you to think I am always victorious and never struggle with the three-headed monster.  He still rears his ugly head every now and then.  Let me give you one example.

It was my first large speaking engagement to about 450 women about thirteen years ago.  My topic was “Unshakable Confidence in Christ.”  Two weeks before I was to speak to the group, I attended a luncheon.  Two ladies whom I did not know were sitting at my table, and they were talking about a speaker they had recently heard at the church where I would be speaking in a few weeks.

“He was the most powerful speaker I have ever heard,” one said.

“I cried all the way through his testimony.  Just to think, he had to live with the fact that his son was an arsonist.  Oh how God has worked mightily in the family.  The pastor was so moved, he asked him to speak at the Sunday night service.  That is highly unusual.  I don’t think we will ever have a speaker that good again.”

On and on they sang the praises of this mighty man of God.  They used words like dynamic, powerful, electric, and eloquent. I never mentioned that I would be the speaker for their next meeting.  At that point, I wasn’t so sure I would be.

As I listened to the ladies, my throat constricted, the tea sandwiches clung to the roof of my mouth, and my heart pounded wildly.  Then Satan, the gatekeeper for the three-headed monster, let him out.

“Who do you think you are, going to speak at this event?  Listen to the caliber of people they bring in.  This man came from all the way across the country.  You are coming from just across town.  What could you possibly have to say to help these women?  If I were you, I’d bow out now before you embarrass yourself.”

You know what? Even though I knew it was the enemy whispering in my ear, I started to believe him.  After all, what he was saying made a lot more sense than the “Who I am in Christ” statements taped on my refrigerator door.

After the luncheon, I decided to go by the church and purchase a tape of the previous speaker, just to see what I was going to be compared to.  I walked into the church, paid my $5.00, popped the tape in the console, and braced myself for the hour of power.

            Nothing happened.

            I fast-forwarded the tape.

            Nothing happened.

            I flipped the tape over.

            Nothing happened.

            The tape was blank.

            At that moment, I did not hear the dynamic speaker on the tape, I heard God.

Sharon, you do not need to hear what my servant said to these people two weeks ago.  The tape is blank because I do not want you to compare yourself to anyone else.  It doesn’t matter what he said.  I will give you a message for these ladies.  I can speak through a prophet, I can speak through a fisherman, and I can speak through a donkey. I gave him a message and I have given you one as well.  Who are you “performing” for, my child, them or Me?  Do not compare yourself to anyone.  You are my child and I am asking you to speak to an audience of One.  It was indeed an hour of power.  I didn’t bother getting my money back for the defective tape.  It was exactly what I needed to hear.

So the next time Satan said to me, “Who do you think you are?” let me tell you what I said. “I am the light of the world.  I am the salt of the earth.  I am a child of God.  I am the bride of Christ.  I am a joint-heir with Christ.  I have the power of the Holy Spirit. I have been delivered from the domain of darkness and transferred to the kingdom of Christ.  I am chosen of God, holy and dearly loved.”

Two weeks later I spoke with confidence, and God blessed us all.

Let’s Pray
Dear God, I know that without You I am nothing but an empty vessel.  However, because of You, I am filled with the power of the Holy Spirit and have been blessed with every spiritual blessing!  I can be confident because of who I am as a child of the King.  I can do everything through Christ who strengthens me!

In Jesus’ Name,

Now It’s Your Turn
When is the last time you had a case of the “I can’ts?

Where do you think those feelings of insecurity come from?

Do you believe that the power of God lives in you?

Do you think there is any incident in which God would say “I can’t?”

I hope you answered no!  Look up these two verses and write them down.  Post them in a visible place and look at them every time your confidence begins to wane this week.

Luke 1:37

Genesis 18:14

If you are struggling with insecurity, I’d like to hear your thoughts on this devotion.  Visit my Facebook page and let’s chat. 

If you ever struggle with feelings of inferiority, insecurity, or inadequacy, then you’ll want to study Sharon Jaynes’ book Experience the Ultimate Makeover.  The message of this book will help you to see yourself as God sees you!

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Comments 4

  1. I’m working on digging out of my own black pit.Well that’s not quite right. But lately have been wondering how God was going to use it for good.I have no doubt that HE will.That aside,thank you for those Holy Spirit filled words on who we are in Christ.God is always on time.Nothing is impossible in Him. I really felt His presence.It gave me goosebumps,and quickened His Spirit in me. I don’t know if you can tell but I’m suffering from depression and anxiety.(2years at least,feels like a lifetime).

  2. I accidently sent the message before I was through. Do you have any advice for me.Do you hear God telling you anything on my behalf? Do you know why you went through it or is that to personal? Sisters in Christ,Betty.

  3. Also my pastor told me God gives us our dreams and the desires of our heart(as long as they line up with His plans of course)but I don’t have any dreams and can’t remember ever having any.That He will use us along the lines of our natural God given abilities and talents,things we like to do,and are fairly good at.I’m really not sure what those are though.I really need some Godly advice. It’s kinda in short supply around me right now. Thanks,Betty.

  4. Sharon, you are such an awesome woman of God and I am just so thankful that God directed me to your books! I went to Lifeway yesterday and bought 2 more!

    I pray that God will continue to bless your ministry mightily and that He will continue to speak to us through you.

    In Him,

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