Today’s Truth:
“Everything is possible for him who believes” (Mark 9:23 NIV).
Friend to Friend
Once, a distraught father had an unruly son with multiple physical and emotional problems. Many people even said the boy was possessed by a demon. The dad had tried everything, but the boy continued to demonstrate anti-social behavior: throwing himself in the fire and then in water. That sort of behavior, on top of frequent seizures, rolling on the ground, foaming at the mouth, and an inability to talk, made the dad desperate to find a solution. He even took the boy to some faith healers who were traveling through his hometown. But nothing seemed to work.
Finally, the dad realized no human being was going to be able to help his son, so he took him directly to God. The father heard that Jesus was visiting in his community, so he boldly brought the boy to Him. With desperation in his voice the father pleaded, “If You can do anything, take pity on us and help us!”
And Jesus answered, “If You can! All things are possible to him who believes.”
Immediately the boy’s father cried out, “I do believe: help my unbelief.”
With that profession, Jesus healed the man’s son.
Oh, how this story from Mark 9 stirs my heart. Can’t you feel the father’s pain? How desperately he must have felt every time the child threw himself into the water or the fire. “Why son? Why do you do these things? I don’t understand,” he must have asked.
Imagine the humiliation of the whispers as the family walked down the streets. “That’s the Jones family. Have you heard about their son? He’s…” The stares, the snickers, the brutal comments. Don’t you know there were many days when this dad wanted to just give up? Instead, he offers us a beautiful picture of what all parents must do, the ultimate act in parenting – hand our children over to God.
As mothers, at time we find ourselves at the end of our mental and emotional resources. We feel we have done everything humanly possible and don’t know the best action to take with our children. That’s exactly where God wants us every day: not depending on our human wisdom but on His unfathomable omniscience, not depending on our own strength but on His unlimited power. When we realize that we do not and never will have all the child-rearing answers and solutions, we discover the importance of giving our children to God.
S.D. Gordon, in Quiet Talks on Prayer, said, “You can do more than pray, after you have prayed. But you cannot do more than pray until you have prayed.”
Let’s Pray
(For those who have children still at home)
Dear God, today, I once again bring my child to you. Please show me how to parent this precious gift that you have given me. Help me to be the best mother that I can be. I pray that Your Holy Spirit will teach me, Your wisdom will guide me, and Your love will move me. Most of all, Lord, I give this child to You. Please make him (her) a servant after Your own heart.
In Jesus’ Name,
Amen
(For those with grown children)
Dear God,
My child is no longer under my roof or under my wing. He (She) is now out in the world making life decisions of his (her) own. I give this adult child to You, Lord. May he (she) seek You with all his (her) heart. I pray that You will protect him (her), guide him (her), and open his (her) heart to the truth of God’s Word every day.
In Jesus’ Name,
Amen.
Now It’s Your Turn
Make a list of things about your child over which you have no control.
Now turn that list into a prayer and relinquish each item of concern to God.
Remember Jesus’ reply to the Father when He said, “If you can do anything…” Write today’s key verse down and commit it to memory.
Being a parent is the most difficult, rewarding responsibility that God has entrusted to us. I am so glad that He doesn’t leave us to figure it out all on our own, but gives us the Bible as the ultimate handbook. If you would like to discover seven key elements of great parenting, see Sharon’s book,
Comments 1
I’m new to Girlfriends in God and must have missed this one. But God definitely sent me to your devotions to read over. I have reached the end of knowing what to do anymore with my oldest son – and on my way home this morning I prayed about it and gave it to God. It has been a very emotional roller coaster ride the past several years. I feel as though I am definitely reaping what I sowed over 19 years ago. He has no respect for my husband, which is his step father (but adopted him and raised him since 3 yrs old), his father is not in his life. He just seems to have so much anger, hatred, and bitterness stored up and has no respect for us. We’ve tried to be supportive of what he wanted to do – although he never finishes. He is back home after trying the military- but didn’t make it. He is in a job now – which is hard for me – because he’s “showed” little interest in getting his driver’s license and I have to drive him back and forth everyday, which I did offer until he can. I’ve tried to teach him about finances, but he’s “not going to have anyone tell him what to do.” He is suppose to be saving for a car, because we cannot afford to buy one for him, and he continues to blow his money. I know there is nothing I can do anymore, but turn it over to God! Please pray for us, but mainly for him. I feel sometimes that I failed him as a mother, because I did not raise him in the church as I was – but strayed. We are back in church now, although not as a family. He has been invited to go, but will not. Hopefully we can avoid this happening to our youngest by living a more Godly life now. Any words/prayers would be appreciated. I only gave you some of the negative details so you could a mental picture of what’s going on – I know that love should be unconditional and not hold any score of wrong going, but with a child where do you draw that line (so to speak) in trying to teach discipline.