“The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective,” (James 5:16 TNIV).
Friend to Friend
There are some verses in the Bible that I wish God had just left out. Here are a few of them:
- A quarrelsome wife is like a constant dripping. (Proverbs 19:13)
- A quarrelsome wife is like a constant dripping on a rainy day; restraining her is like restraining the wind or grasping oil with the hand. (Proverbs 27:15,16)
- Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and ill-tempered wife. (Proverbs 21:19)
- Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife. (Proverbs 25:24)
OK, that’s about all I can take right now. When I wrote the book, The best remedy to cure ourselves from being a nagging wife, or a nagging mother, or a nagging friend, is to become a praying woman. Jesus invites us to stop nagging our husbands (and others) and begin nagging God!
Here’s what Jesus had to say:
“Suppose one of you has a friend, and he goes to him at midnight and says, `Friend, lend me three loaves of bread, because a friend of mine on a journey has come to me, and I have nothing to set before him.’
“Then the one inside answers, `Don’t bother me. The door is already locked, and my children are with me in bed. I can’t get up and give you anything.’ I tell you, though he will not get up and give him the bread because he is his friend, yet because of the man’s boldness he will get up and give him as much as he needs.
“So I say to you: Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened. (Luke 11:5-9).
In the Greek, the words ask, seek, and knock are present participle verbs. The more correct translation would read, ask and keep on asking, seek and keep on seeking, knock and keep on knocking. God invites us to be persistent in our prayers. We can give our worries and cares to God and leave it up to Him to do the rest. “Cast all your cares on the LORD and He will sustain you,” (Psalms 55:22). “Cast all your anxiety on Him for He cares for you,” (1 Peter 5:7). If you are married, remember, you don’t want to be your husband’s mother…you want to be the woman of his dreams.
Dear Lord, I confess that sometimes I nag my husband…alright, maybe more than sometimes. But Lord, I am determining in my heart to stop nagging my husband and start being consistent and persistent in prayer. My husband is Your workmanship, not mine. Forgive me when I try to yank the paint brush from Your hand and create brushstrokes of my own. I pray that I can be the woman that he needs in order to become the man that You desire. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
Now It’s Your Turn
What do you think a nag sounds like?
Do you ever nag your husband or other significant people in your life?
If there are things that you tend to nag your husband about, try this – write them down on a piece of paper, turn the list over to God, and then turn off the leaky faucet. Give it a try. You might be surprised!
Scroll down to the comment section and tell me 1 leaky faucet comment you are going to turn off for good. Finish this sentence. “I’m not going to nag my husband (or friend, or parent, etc.) about __________ anymore. Instead I’m going to give it to God.
Nagging just seems to come natural for most of us girls. But God calls us to live super-naturally. If your marriage could use a bit of freshening up, take a look at Sharon’s book, Becoming the Woman of His Dreams. And if it that little but powerful muscle called the tongue that needs an overhaul, see her book, The Power of a Woman’s Words.